With some people, the onion metaphor rings true, and you feel like the more you know them, the more layers you discover.
Others, are more like tomatoes, and if you peel back the skin you just end up with a big red sploggy mess that’s hard to manage.
The onion people are the ones that teach us more about ourselves, because as we peel back their layers, so too do we reveal our own secrets.
Sometimes it takes an onion with courage, to tell another onion that it is ok to reveal a layer hidden, or perhaps two onions when put together find the confidence to reveal themselves to one another.
The tomatoes wish they were onions, and try to disguise themselves as such by adding fake layers, typically through chemical enhancement or deception.
On the other hand, some onions try to disguise themselves as tomatoes, and pretend to be less than they are.
This is usually because a tomato who very much wished they were an onion, put the onion down, and made them feel like they were nothing more than a tomato.
If you know an onion that has happened to, remind them of what makes them special, that they are unique, that they have layers, and that the fascinating part about our world is that by discovering the layers of other people we discover who we are.
Horses too have layers, and while a horse may seem like a simple being, eat, sleep, poop etc, they in fact take in a lot more than most non horsey people would give them credit for.
As rider it’s our job to peel back the layers of our horses, and learn about them, so that we can help them to understand what we are asking.
Only when we understand the layers of our horse, can we unlock the key to his training success.
Many people now term me the Lusitano girl, because of course I ride two Lusitanos.
Ask any of the top riders, judges, spectators, trainers, and they will tell you the same golden truth…
“A top horse, is a top horse, regardless of his breed.”